My stitch is on 'He is about to file - do I give up'. So have finally realised today that my H's friend is not jut a friend. She is in fact the OW. My youngest son indicated that he saw them hugging. (Yes he has her around my children all the time). So it is official my H is having an affair.
Anyway should I now contact her H? I actully have given up on our M, and would like to learn to move on, but do think that the affair should be exposed. I have also found out the OW and her H are now seperated.
I just dont think my H and OW should get away with this. This has been going on for too long now and they have hurt too many people. I have spent the last 2 years just keeping quiet.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Expose the affair to OW's H. Even if they are separated, he has a right to know. He needs to make decisions about his life and his marriage based on REALITY, not illusions.
Originally Posted By: lea74
Hi, xxx I am XXXX, xxxx wife or soon to be ex-wife. I thought it would be a good idea if we could chat.
No.
If you know without any doubt in your mind that they are having an affair, you simply and matter of factly say "Mr. OWH, there is no easy wal to tell you this, my H is having an affair with your W".
That's it.
There is a 99% chance that he will thank you for telling him.
Originally Posted By: lea74
Any suggestions - never done anything this bold before.
Neither did I until my W had an affair.
I don't regret exposing her antics for a single nanosecond.
Good luck.
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
