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It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain #1946279 02/25/10 02:20 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 441 N nikblondiew OP Member
OP nikblondiew Member N Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 441	So we had our tax appointment yesterday afternoon. My H was present. DURING our appointment he slips me a note and says you're hair looks really good. Um, ok???? Then after our appointment he texts me and says I just wanted to let you know that you look good, I mean really good! I didn't respond. Then he texts again.....Do you want to hangout sometime? WOW!!!!! I'm in the middle of writing up our decree (thank you Bobbijo) and you're asking me if I want to hang out???? NOthing with this man should shock me but this did! Me: 31 H: 30 Son 2.5 Minnesota

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain nikblondiew #1946311 02/25/10 03:07 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	Seriously! Nice.... Of course you look fabulous. You ARE fabulous... That is too funny....haven't had a note passed to me since the sixth grade! Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain BobbiJo #1946317 02/25/10 03:23 PM
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OP nikblondiew Member N Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 441	Thanks BobbiJo! I'm working on my draft as we speak! You should've seen my face....utter shock. We're in the middle of doing taxes and you're passing notes. I wasn't being too pleasant with him at all. The women preparing our taxes has a ring similar to that of my wedding ring. I said oh your ring looks like one I use to have. Couldn't resist. Me: 31 H: 30 Son 2.5 Minnesota

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain nikblondiew #1946363 02/25/10 04:13 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL Member
LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	LOL...sometimes getting those little punches in there are fun. It sometimes really amazes me that they come around after they realize they have lost. Can we hang out sometime? Is this high school? LMAO!!!!! Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain LolaL #1946382 02/25/10 04:33 PM
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BeginningAgain Member B Joined: Jun 2008 Posts: 1,945	Well speaking of sixth grade, next up he'll probably ask you if "you can go together".

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain BeginningAgain #1946392 02/25/10 04:37 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	At least it wasn't Can we hang out sometime? Circle one: Yes No Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain BobbiJo #1946455 02/25/10 05:41 PM
Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 441 N nikblondiew OP Member
OP nikblondiew Member N Joined: Mar 2008 Posts: 441	Bobbi - LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLL very very funny. His maturity level is right up there. Honest, wouldn't put it passed him. Still, just wow'd about it. Either he really doesn't get it or he's grieved the marriage ending and is over it and wants to be friends. Hmm... Me: 31 H: 30 Son 2.5 Minnesota

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain nikblondiew #1946482 02/25/10 06:06 PM
Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa B BobbiJo Member
BobbiJo Member B Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 6,948 Iowa	I don't know what I would do if that ever happened to me. I cannot imagine Dan asking me to hang out some time. Part of me would love it, part of me would be pissed that he decided to do it after we were already in the D process... Have you responded yet? Me-35 Together: 18 yrs M-12.5 yrs S-8 D-4 D'd: Feb. 2010 The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain BobbiJo #1946509 02/25/10 06:25 PM
Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York L LolaL Member
LolaL Member L Joined: May 2008 Posts: 4,715 Hilton, New York	He could have a friend pass you a note asking if you like him... Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

Re: It's become obvious the drinking wrecked his brain LolaL #1946530 02/25/10 06:45 PM
Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 1,255 Limboland T Trixi Member
Trixi Member T Joined: Dec 2004 Posts: 1,255 Limboland	Or, he could talk to his friend and say "Go find out if Nikblondiew likes likes me. But DON'T say I wanted you to ask!" Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing

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