Busted again....

[OnceBurdened]

You've been around these boards long enough to know what that is: OMW has probably kicked him to the curb. VERY expensive for him and probably your W doesn't look as attractive as she once did. He's busted. W is busted. No A-drug for the addicts. Now the reality is hitting home for her of what she is losing - "A drug" fog lifting and she is having the 'oh sh#t' moments. Expect to hear more of this.

Greek

OM's biz is failing qwikly, he has had to move it back into his garage. He has had most employeees quit on him. BUT OMW has told me she has not seen atty for their D since the initial stuff.

My W keeps blaming me then repealing it and telling me I'm more ready than repealing it. Says "I can't go thru withit one day " than " I can't stay" the next.

What she is doing is moving out and moving forward with the D.

[Greek]

Of course you should ALWAYS pay close attention to what she DOES. What she SAYS is a sideshow. You know this.
Greek

[OnceBurdened]

W had bought a couch from some friends of ours, so sunday she had OM move it for her to her new house! Then proceeds to tell me it means nothing, she couldn't find anybody else to help her!

Can there be any deeper denial on her part? She is making it very easy to get over her. That is for sure.

[OnceBurdened]

So can anyone tell me what's with these qoutes from my WAW-

"There is nothing right about what I've done"

"You deserve better"

"You didn't do anything to deserve this, it's what I fel like I have to do"

" It's not about him. He could fall of the face of the earth and it wouldn't change this right now"

I'm staying dark thru to the end (D day is most likely next week). So I'm looking for meaning from y'all.

[pearlharbr]

Sounds to me like she's telling you what she thinks you want to hear in order to call off the D.

Words without actions mean nothing.

[Gnosis]

Hey OB, I'll give it a shot, but note my WAW translator has been a bit wacky lately...

"There is nothing right about what I've done"
--> I know you don't approve of what I done but I have no regrets.

"You deserve better"
--> I don't want you. Leave me alone so I can continue with my adultery in peace.

"You didn't do anything to deserve this, it's what I felt like I have to do"
--> I don't blame you for me screwing around and I don't regret having committed adultery.

" It's not about him. He could fall of the face of the earth and it wouldn't change this right now"
--> I've done what I've done and have no regrets. I don't care what you think about it. She's right here. It is NOT about him. She let it happen. The blame falls on her.

OB stay strong. I know you're hurting bro and this is a tough time for you. Keep posting here where we can give you support.

[OnceBurdened]

Friday -

Om texts me- "you and my W are real good at talkin sh*t to your W. U don't have to tell her I'm a sorry MF you can tell me any time.

I replied" No your fine, honost and upstanding. It's not manly to text threats so LOSE MY NUMBER!"

He replies "Dont pretend you know me, U my W, Me and ur W all cheated. It's all wrong no 2 ways about it. what do you do at this point? U know as well as me that the point of no return has long been past. U can think of me what u will. I'll lose the number."

Today is last day of minimum waiting period. D can be final any day now.