Okay - I am going to take a few days to cool off but i am going to see my attny on Monday. I am doing this to find out EXACTLY what my options are. If it make sense for me to file now giving me the best chance to have as much time with my kids and minimize the finacial impact then I will confront W about the EA and set some clear boundaries. If the L tells me that it does not really make a difference if I file now or later then I will wait and hope that W comes out of this somehow. At the end of the day I am not trying to screw anyone but I do have enough self respect that I cannot allow her to continue to live in the house with me while she is off in the arms of someone else. I do love her but I also love my kids and myself. I do not want my kids growing up in a house with no emotions. Finally, I would be willing to wait this out if i was assured that I would have sufficent time with the kids - this is my number one priority. Not my M and not my W. My kids.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
