Now you have all the tools to read. Let us know how your doing and if you have any questions.
Remember that in the stages of MLC it does NOT go 1,2,3,4,5,6 but can get all mixed up and repeat itself and have more than one stage at once. Depression is the key to the whole thing and it is always present!
Glad to see you over here. Do read the resources. It had occurred to me that MLC might be in play in your situation when I have read over in newcomers. You know your H best and the resources should help.
S- Unfortunately I am working today (as evidenced by the fact that here I am posting:)) but the weather isn't great so being stuck inside isn't so bad. And $$$ is always good.:)
For me, the big "tell" that my H is most likely dealing with MLC is that for the past more than a year he has been a mirror image of the man I have known for almost 20 years now, like he is his evil twin. Slooooooowly I am seeing that reverse back but he is still out there for sure.
The archives really are a great resource, so I hope you are able to read through!
If he is MLC, don't even try to figure him out. We can't know what is going on in their heads, truly. From what I hear both from others and from the times my H has opened up, it is a mess in there and they don't even really know.
There was an interesting thread yesterday here that I thought I would copy here if you want to read it in your spare time :), about how dealing with MLC can be perceived as being a doormat. A lot of the advice may seem like that. People posted some awesome responses that put it into perspective.
