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Oh, the places you'll go! #1942999 02/20/10 03:03 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	So, its been a while... How have the peeps here been? Drop me a line and let me know how you're doing.... Love, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: Oh, the places you'll go! Valentine #1943044 02/20/10 04:45 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine OP Member
OP Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Okay, so everyone is being shy.... Guess I should tell you what has been happening to me first... The Ex got married in Vegas in September...had kid #2 in December. Still trying to sell the house---what a nightmare that is. Have been dating...no one in particular...but have met someone that I really like and we shall see where it goes. Was trying to move back home...but finding a job there has been more difficult than I first imagined... Otherwise, life is marvy! Doing well...trying to be positive and not get down...and actually that has not been too difficult! There are times when I reminisce and wonder what the hell happened but I know that we have both chosen a separate path. I am at peace....finally. Much love, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: Oh, the places you'll go! Valentine #1943070 02/20/10 05:24 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 2,791 VA B bright_new_day Member
bright_new_day Member B Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 2,791 VA	Yay for peace! Sounds like things are going good on your end. "You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn Suzy M: 6/22/85; D: 1/31/08

Re: Oh, the places you'll go! Valentine #1943137 02/20/10 07:47 PM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 734 North Carolina D deb13 Member
deb13 Member D Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 734 North Carolina	Hi, Valentine!! It's so good to hear from you and glad to know that you are doing so well!! Peace is wonderful, isn't it? I am doing well, also...getting ready for the "big move" coming this summer. So excited...seems like it's been forever!! Good luck w/ your move and w/ finding a job. I'm praying that everything continues to go YOUR way! Take Care and Keep in Touch! Deb M:June 28,2008 H:Awesome Man! S:28 SS:25 SS:21 D:19 S:16 "Love Never Fails!" "God doesn't take anything out of our lives without replacing it with something far better." -Billy Graham

Re: Oh, the places you'll go! Valentine #1948054 02/28/10 04:51 AM
Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 174 L LostLou Member
LostLou Member L Joined: Aug 2006 Posts: 174	Hey Alix - haven't been on here forever... bored tonight so thought I'd see what was going on here. You have been through it I see. So sorry... Jeff and I divorced too end of 08 - ow was never really out of the picture (I knew, but was hoping he'd figure things out)I decided to buy my own house and left him with the old one full of memories for her to move in. He is still miserable (kids upset with him, still drinking, etc...)and hopefully she is getting what she wanted! Been on lots of weird dates - there has to be a book there somewhere! Glad to see you are doing well and moving along. Can't believe he has 2 kids with her - sorry about that. Ugh All the best, Linda

Re: Oh, the places you'll go! Valentine #1953719 03/08/10 12:42 PM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN S sofaraway Member
sofaraway Member S Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 10,147 Memphis, TN	Hey Vali..... I think having few answers to this thread may be a good sign. People are moving on and not as dependent on this sight as they used to be. Thats the way it should be. I am glad to hear you have possibly found someone... you deserve it. I will catch up with you in the other world...... Ian M- 48 XW- mentally 17 KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28 Married- 17 years Divorce final- 10/16/09

Re: Oh, the places you'll go! sofaraway #1958918 03/15/10 06:12 PM
Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118 P poet Member
poet Member P Joined: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,118	Nice group, good thread. Hi SFAway. And LostLou, a book sounds fab! I'm just here for the ride, seeing what I can glean from the experts. I'm going through my big D right now, and I feel like I'm in an out-of-body experience! poet

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