WAW has WA History... im scared!

[Awoken]

Hitter,

you've got to focus on you at this point.

Start off with some simple things, that are easy to do and understand.

1) you need to eat regular, and healthy. drink lots of water.
2) you need exercise; it will help you sleep. Start with long walks. Run if you can.
3) figure out what you want for YOURSELF, not to save your relationship. I know it's hard, but you can do it.

Hang in there.

[hitter]

tried to work on me...

tried to be cheerful and find out in what way i could be attractive to girlfriend... not in at sexual way, but personally.
not beeing one to fight with and so and.. cool, calm collectet...
i am not good at it but i try... and yesterday she called me and told me that i could get the little gardenhouse, if she could get the money she has investet in it...

don´t know what worked.. if it was my new approach or her talking to mutual friends who told her that it was stupied to sell our dream, and if she was moving on, i might as well get it...

"lets see" has been her last few comments...
don´t know what that means... thinks she is moving on... she keeps telling me. tells me time after time that we don´t fit togheter.. and i wonder why she has to tell me all the time...

confused.. yes i am... but takes one day at the time, and tries to find out what I WANT... last few years has been about what SHE wanted...

[hitter]

but don´t know what i want... .

i keep thinking about her all the time...

talking about her

wanting her to come back...
her friends tells me that she is SO gone.. that she seems convinced that she did the right thing in leaving me..
i think she stills loves me but cant feel it..
wont allow her self to feel it.. so she keeps tellingeverybody incl. me that she is allright, is over me and everything will be ok...

why can´t i seem to belive her ?
and how do i move on ?
try to take one hour at the time, but i keep allowing her to pop up, make plans , make strategies...

i feel lost.. can´t seem to find myself...

anyone ??

[happywithchange]

Well I think I will just say this to everyone I reply to from now on,...she already has another man and she is simply trying to destroy you. Because you are pathetic to her. And trust me, you are coming off as desperate to me too. It's not attractive at all. IN fact I want to run away as fast as I can and I only just "met" you 5 minutes ago.

The only reason I am not, is because I know what it's like to feel desperate. I know how it feels to realize that you messed it all up. And then they reject you and are unattainable, and this triggers limerence in you, an insatiable desire to have what you cant have. And the only thing she is thinking about is this other man that she is surely with or soon to be with. Women are afraid to tell the truth, men are afraid to hear it.

[Wholeagain]

Hi hitter,

Sorry to see you here. Could you tell a little more about your R, how long you've been together, etc?

Please, don't contact her right now, don't chase her friends.

You need a level head if you want to give DB a shot.