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I can understand how you'd feel "wow". I hope this is a babystep in the right direction for your M. And good luck with evaluating future options.


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Hey D-
So sorry about the lay-off. That truly stinks!
Must mean something better is in store for you!
Interesting reacton by your wife..keep expectations low, as I know you will..I hope the rest of your weekend is good.


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D,

Keep your head up! I know there are days that feel like someone punched you in the gut.

Just stay focused on yourself and the kids. Stay strong.....


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I've spent the last few days figuring out what I really want to do with my life. My job loss has made me realize I have a real opportunity now to do something I really enjoy.

My wife is going to meet with a mutual friend of ours next week to talk. She told him last night that she knows "her compass is off".

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You are doing good D-Money...keep it up.


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Hey D,

How you doing? Just stopping by to say what's up.


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I hope that you're still feeling optimistic about opportunities and starting fresh smile


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Originally Posted By: flowmom
I hope that you're still feeling optimistic about opportunities and starting fresh smile


Absolutely. It's just a matter of getting a plan to get from Point A to Point B.


On the MLC front, my wife now has joined a dating site. Was told about it, saw it and just shake my head. The description of her ideal first date is exactly what her and I did on our first date.

My heart hurts over this. My head tells me that she's still searching for that "answer". The things she wrote on her profile show her confusion.

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Well...sucks to say but confusion = good.

As opposed to packed bags at the front door.

How is the job front going D?



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Ugh D. I am expecting to be in your shoes any day, being confronted with evidence that H is dating or more. Glad to hear that you can focus on your job sitch...you can use that focus to your advantage smile


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
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