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hi doc,

while not my biological D or even legally one. That which surpasses both is that she is the D of my heart.

CYS deemed me to be not compliant enough with their rules. Essentially I screwed up my chance to have continued contact with her. So I have not seen her in over two years. It had been just as long since my W had contact with her. Her's was slightly more voluintary. But she was able to have a visit with her just a week ago. My D is currently in a good place and doing very well.

I'll be able to thumb my nose @ CYS who is denying me contact. In less then a year she will be 18 and then presumably it will be up to her if she wants to talk to me or visit. Here's hoping!

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Btw if any of you living E of the Missisippi (arbitrarily drawn line) wishes to take in a gorgeous well behaved K-9 -- part Keeshond/part Samoyed or ShibaInu. Either short term or long term. It would seem that the next phase in my attempts (hopefully w/ the good Lord behind them) require finding a new place for the bowzzer to live ..at least for now.

Just throwing it out there.

Any suggestions are welcome!

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Hey Guy Does this mean there has been positive progress with the W??


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know
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Originally Posted By: Dr LOve
Hey Guy Does this mean there has been positive progress with the W??


Tonight will be the first night of us back together, calling the same place home.

Please pray for us.

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[Tonight will be the first night of us back together, calling the same place home.

Please pray for us.

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You got it buddy...just remember... NOW the real work starts..


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Just checking to see how things are going with the R.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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hello my friends as I make either a brief stop by here or maybe something other than that.

when i am able to assemble my thoughts, maybe an update.

in a nutshell.. still under same roof as per my last update. struggling to find positves


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Originally Posted By: Tomato
in a nutshell.. still under same roof as per my last update. struggling to find positves


Glad to hear that man! Hang in there.


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Hi Tomato!

It's been awhile. What is going on--maybe we can help find the positives.

sg wink


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Originally Posted By: sgctxok
Hi Tomato!

It's been awhile. What is going on--maybe we can help find the positives.

sg wink

I have managed to re-fall back to earth. Ha ha. And really not much has changed. It has but it hasn't. I am sure many of you can relate. And I am one of the luckier ones many people try to point out to me. ??

Doin the best I can ..usually.

Peace.

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