I have a WAW and just read your thread and saw your statement about not leaving your house. This is timely in that I plan to tell my W tonight I am not leaving my house and said that to my IC. He said be very specific and say you are not leaving your home. WAW hears house like it is a possesion you own and you are fighting for property. Home has a more personal meaning and includes place you live but is also synonymous with family and you are fighting for your family instead of a thing. My 2 cents.
she is angry and said i crossed a boundary by snooping into her "business" angry at me for doing it. wondering how, did i hire someone to spy. scared that i'm here with the kids and she is out of town, and that i might do something(i have no idea what she could be thinking).
she is jealous of OM R, in that he has some kind of roommate agreement with his soon to be EX, they live in the same house and co-parent while dating others.
M=37 W=40 Married=10,T=12 D=10 D=8 WAW Bomb=1/12 EA confirmed=1/13 EA exposed=1/27 Current In house separation
Well, good for OM and his soon to be ex. Every couple is allowed to run their R or dissolving R as they see fit.
And logic would state (at least to me) that the OM might not be totally upfront with your W about his "arrangement" or the reasons why.
I had good friends that dated and lived together for years. I want to say 10 years. Then they got married. Six weeks later they got divorced. They still "live" together. What are the particulars? Well, the W travels for work out of the country almost 10 months out of the year. They own a small home but the home sits on a *very* expensive piece of prime waterfront property and due to the economy they are unable to sell it and not lose their shirts. For the 2 months out of the year the W does not travel for work the husband is gone for one of them. So essentially in the next year they will have to spend a grand total of 5 weeks living in the same house in order to NOT lose hundreds of thousands of dollars. To not lose such an enormous sum of money I could tolerate living with my H for 5 weeks out of a year too!
