Now, i have been here long enough to know its all the same script regardless of the person. I am curious of a couple of things. When and If it changes does the WAW script just disappear or does more and more of W that you remember come out.
M:33 W:32 Married 10/28/07 C: B13 G10 (Both from different relationships) 12/30/09 Bomb Divorce Busted 2/04/10 5/15/12 Bomb 2
The script changes when the W changes. Just as she did not become a WAW overnight and start that "script" in one day, neither will it disappear overnight and your old W reappear.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
The script is a symptom of the mental state of the WAW. Like finding ways of justifying behavior that is contrary to what they percieve or even others may percieve as unacceptable, for example. A way of protecting the ego.
Once they have moved on to a new stage of progression or state, the language changes. But I can almost guarantee there will be no return to the old person you once knew.
Last edited by Sgfan; 01/27/1004:52 PM.
Formerly SGfan M:38 W:33 M:8 yrs T:10 yrs Bomb: Dec '08 Separated: 4/18/09 Divorce: 8/28/09 XW Affair began: April 08
