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[SillyOldBear]

She wore the lingerie.

She wore it? I can see how that would work better than what I tried. Worst Bastille day ever.

And she thought bodice-rippers were silly? Well . . . they are. No dumber than most other pornography, though. I call my wife's "romance novels" her granny porn.

[mindfull]

I don't think I've ever chimed in on the SSM forums before, but feel compelled today...

To get technical for a moment:

The "stretchy appliance with vibrator" works well on a finger, too.

Or a tongue!

And, Cinco, it HAD to be the positioning... Try it again. My Gosh. How could it not work?

OK, carry on...

[Jayce]

Gee, did I coin a new phrase? "Stretchy appliance"? I'm chuckling. A whole new discussion I've never seen here before. The thing worked pretty well that weekend. Removal uncomfortable. he said it hurt like using a condom. Anybody have the guts to shave so that's not a problem? LOL Didn't think so.
Discovered 'Gun Oil' awhile back. Gotta love that name. Its silcone based & next time too much caused the 'appliance' to slip. The one w/the little vibrator was narrow like a rubber band & I was afraid it'd hurt?? (If a finger turned me on we could save $$ & forget Cialis) This conversation is ludicrous. Shouldn't my H be asking these questions? LOL. Ahhhhh-at least I seem to have my sense of humor back. Is this like a middle-aged "Porky's" or what?
Best of all tho, is he was willing to try it! & you know what he said when I half-jokingly offered to give him a haircut w/my manicure scissors, right?

The weekend at the bachelor's? Never again. Semi-hermit who drinks too much beer & takes his upper plate out in the evening. No, the mustache didn't hide that-we could tell when he talked. Depressing. H was on vacation that week & we ML a couple times during the week. Yay! We've even ML twice in one day. He didn't think he could but I knew......(BIG smile here).

#5, if she used a vibrator alone at some time, she must have some libido in there somewhere.......The only time I lost mine was when I was on that @#$%&* anti-depressant during my daughter's illness. Stupid Dr. There are better A-D drugs than that one.
Have a great week, everybody. Visit your local "appliance store' LOL
Jayce

[SillyOldBear]

Interesting. Actually, yes, I do trim the hair. I've found that there's no need to shave down to smooth skin (and it's really easy to irritate the skin that way and it'll drive you nu . . . well, crazy for a few days if you do.) I just buzz it down pretty short now and that accomplishes the same purpose. I hadn't even thought about trapping hair under condoms and rings. I can see how that would dampen the mood.

[Bagheera]

Anybody have the guts to shave so that's not a problem? LOL Didn't think so.

Actually....

This is perhaps TMI, but I do shave everything that protrudes from the body, and trim the hair everywhere else. Once it becomes a daily routine in the shower, it's quick, easy (especially with a flexible head razor), and non-irritating. Learning the routine perhaps take a little care and practice, but it's not as bad as one might think.

Why? Because both my wife and myself like it much better that way, both in manual and oral stimulation. Nuff sed.

Good to hear from you again, Jayce.

-- B.

[Jayce]

Thanks. A few posts back I mentioned H's comfort zone is rather narrow....I will probably mention hair removal again but I don't expect him to try it. You never know, tho. I clearly recall how it felt after childbirth when the hair was growing back in the tender areas they shaved before I delivered. ITCHY!! FOR WEEKS!!!I don't want that to happen to him. I just thought a little trimming might help.
Jayce

[Soxfan2008]

Ah, but daily shaving prevents the itchy feeling.

and it also prevents hair in the teeth. 'nuf said.

[Cinco]

Hmmm and I thought the title of my thread was "drive" Apparently I should have named it shave... lol... maybe that'll be my next thread.

Does (s)he or doesn't (s)he?... shave that is... rotfl

Ok depending on Cinco's mood he shaves or he trims or he goes all woolie, oh and also combinations of the three. Of course it depends on the weather too. Definitely the shorter the better for the "stretchy appliance".

Hmmm maybe it's time to try the appliance again?

Cinco

[Jayce]

Time for who to try again, you or me?LOL We will again. I suppose we could get one of the wider ones w/snaps... no rubber pulling hair with that. Might suggest it & let him bring up the subject later. Would love to get him into Ambiance to see the variety of choices. Considering his narrow comfort zone that's not gonna happen any time soon, but a hidden video would be fun if he did. Some interesting people watching in that place. Even without one, the conversation in the car on the way home would be priceless! The all-girl staff of pleasant, upbeat, matter-of-fact, well informed clerks would surprise him. What I'd like is to be surprised to find he's cool with all of it, & maybe even gets some playful ideas.
L8R,
Jayce

[Fergie]

Jayce,

Okay. I've been sent in to comment on the "stretchy appliance". (BTW, love the name for it. Just so you know, I've currently stolen it.)

Forget the thin rubber band-ish ring stretchy appliances, and go for something with a wider more comfortable base like the InnerVibe ring. Plus there are dozens of larger silicon "stretchy appliances" available (personal preference required).

As far as shaving, it sounds like that is a no-go for the H. Maybe a little manscaping (short of shaving)?

Fergie