So 2009 came and went. It could have a been a better year, but it also could have been worse too. So I am putting my faith into 2010 being a great year. My D started and ended fast. My S got sick, but healed. I have a great new girlfriend who has shown me how I can actually be treated, and treated well. The XW is engaged, and hopefully that will be good for her and I can stop having to take sh*t from her about my GF. So here is a cheers to all my DB friends, and I wish a great year to you all as well.
I wish I would have been able to let go of a hopeless situation earlier. Congratulations (as strange as that sounds) on having a swift break.
Your former spouse's personal life is none of your business. Your personal life is none of hers. That right ended with the divorce. Set that boundary. Inform her. End the discussion before it starts. Say, "Gotta go" if she doesn't listen and hang up, go.
Kudos on beginning to find the person you're meant to be. That's so neat.
Gypsy, thank you for the kind words. It was not an easy thing at the time to just let go, but in the end, I am glad I was able to do it. And as you say, "End the discussion", I have done this on many occasions.
