Well time for me to move here. Finally after well over two years from now.
Here's brief update. Getting a divorce. I've tried everything over the last two years... he is lost. I would not take him back now nor ever. I do deserve better, he was right all along. Call in MLC, call it cruel, call it whatever you want but everyone deserves to be treated with respect and dignity. I am tired of being used by this man. So, the end date is March 26th... hopefully sooner.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Whhaaaa none of my friends came to see me. I knew I shouldn't have left seperating, no it was piecing, no it was seperated...LOL ...kidding aside.
STBXH "forgot" to put the money in the account per our agreement... he did put half in today and hopefully the rest tomorrow. We will have to make other arrangements as I know he will forget and it won't be intentional.
I found out today that if we get all our ducks in a row... parenting class, financial documents signed we can be D in as little as 90 days from time of filing. Otherwise, it will be March 25 as a court date. I really am pushing for it just to be done as dragging it out seems to cause more agitations because of the strange dance we seem to do around each other regarding finances... that way we will each be in control of our destiny.
Ok.. on the FF guy "thing" All is going well, very well.
BBJ- I think I'm his superfox and he IS just that into me. I am pretty into him but I am overly cautious as can be expected. He accepts me as I am. I will never compromise ME again. I am enjoying the company, companionship, talks, and the respect he gives me. Plus, he's not bad to look at....
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M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Seriously, if I can't bitch here where can I? I haven't bitched in years... (see where it got me)!!!!
Now, where's that hose!! LOL
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M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
It sounds like you are doing well. I sure understand wanting things to be done, once you get to the point of knowing it has to happen.
By the way, I can see why the FF guy would think that you are a superfox! Awwww shucks Jeff... thank you
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Does FF guy have a boat? No boat, but I have one. LOL You have to be setting some sort of all time DivorceBusting record for fastest move from piecing to separated to surviving to re-marriage.
Kerry K.. don't make me come after you! I've been at this for 3 years... I've been on the board for 2..... it's either sink or swim at this point and I'm a good swimmer. I like to be happy and productive so when my STBXH made the move again... and said what he said to me... it was the final string....just like everyone here gets to at some point... you know when your done.
And please bite your tongue on re-marriage.... we haven't even introduced the kids and won't for sometime. Jeeeshhhh I broke out in a cold sweat when I saw that! Although I do like being in a committed relationship of course I don't know if that's just a habit I got into after 19 years of marriage!
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M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
