How many people here read Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy? Then read it again and pick it up from time to time. And when some new fellow comes along asking mid-life crisis or infidelity or walk-away wife open it and wonder what part of the book they are reading over and over and questioning themselves about. Or maybe read a thread of someone who has been here for over a year and their wheels are still spinning and wonder which chapter they should reread?
Have you ever reread it and realized your interpretation of it is totally different afterwards?
Haven't reread it. I need to. You made a good points.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Steve, I read DR, and immediately got your post and headagainstthewallbanging posts to Kevin, HOWEVER, I absolutely refuse to give his thread anymore attention than seeing the words posted to him by you on the Active Topics page. It's too frustrating to click through to his thread, so I didn't reply.
I DID want to reply - "They're also ALL in my yard!"
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Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Have you ever reread it and realized your interpretation of it is totally different afterward?
I have not picked it up for over a year. May be time to reread it. I find with other books that I can reread them and get different things out of them based on being at a different point in my life.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Good question Steve. I have read both DB and DR. In fact, I have read them both at least twice and have referred back to DR on multiple other occasions.
But, admittedly, I have not looked at them in a few months now.
Steve, I read DR, and immediately got your post and headagainstthewallbanging posts to Kevin, HOWEVER, I absolutely refuse to give his thread anymore attention than seeing the words posted to him by you on the Active Topics page. It's too frustrating to click through to his thread, so I didn't reply.
Understood. I frusturate my own self.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
