Hello all ive been perusing the boards for a while now and tried to impliment what ive learned but it seems to no avail. Quick run down down my wife of 8.5 years told me in July we would be better of divorced. Typical waw crap. Of course i did and said all the wrong things(begged pleaded cried) then i found this this site. Sould have posted months ago but thought i could do it on my own so wrong. We have a 3.5yr old daughter. Have been toghether 10 years total. Wife filed for d in sept had reconciliation order signed in oct. no good there she didnt try. judge dismisseedorder dec. i have read db and tried almost everything the last resort method seemed to work the best but i think i screwed the progress up. The worst thing is she seems to be dbing me at the same time. i know that makes no since, what i men is she has gone really dark on me. sorry for the rambling lost and dont know which end is up anymore any help/advive is much appriciated thanks
Hi Torque, So sorry you are going through such a tough time... sometimes when you try too hard and try everything at once it just gets harder. Take the DB'ing book and go back to the very start.... chapter 1. Its never too late, and you have never messed it up.... you just have taken a step back. Go back to being the warm and friendly person she fell in love with first time around. Hope you work it out : ) Good luck and God Bless
help wife told me thtis mornign shes started wondering if shes doing the right thing. After our conversation last night she really thinks she is. I aparently wasnt honest with her. Can some one help please.. Oh by the way Thanks for posting Beary
She asked me about when i started talking to an old girl friend i apprently changed my story 4 times. i couldnt remember exactly when i started talking to her.So i was being dishonest.
