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I believe my husband has been going through a MLC since January 2009. We have been separated since September. He just broke up with his pregnant girlfriend at Thanksgiving. He has told me that we will never get back together, that he faked loving me for years and that he only likes me as a friend. I really find this hard to believe because all the cards he gave me on special occasions indicated that he really loved me. We have also been intimate all this year and several different times he has told me he loves me. Is this just another phase of his MLC? Or could he really have lost all feelings of love for me? How should I handle this? I love this man and would love for us to start a new relationship since I believe the old relationship is dead.


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M 17 years

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Have you posted on MLC forum? People there are more aware of the stages/phases of the MLC.

All this "never loved you" BS is crap. Rewriting history is pretty much standard around here. Let it go...

Check out MLC forum.
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Thank you for replying. I will check out MLC. thanks


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Bomb 1/2009
OW 25
M 17 years

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ILYBNILWY 1/11/2009
separated 8/2009

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