it might be easy to call the other person if both stay in the same city to work on your R but if you both really want to work on the R then the need or want to call the other person should not factor in because your focus would be and should be to the both of you not someone else. she said she wants to take you back? she left you didn't should that be the other way around. My wife been moved out 3 months now and hasn't shown me that she wants to move back in because the want for her to do so is not there. she had an affair last year (4-5)months but he went back to his wife. so far she hasn't shown any remorse. i think stand your ground-be yourself-be honest-and she thinks you are leaving stuff for her to do(like clothes washing) then just tell her its not done because you haven't had time not that you were leaving it for her to do. me42/wife43/S19/D13/D18 married her spouse19/two grandsboys 18 months and 6 months all live with me not wife
she said she wants to take you back? she left you didn't should that be the other way around.
She didnt leave me for OM, she has been unhappy for a long time. I take partial blame, but I also know it takes two. Yes, I want her back. She sees the "new" me but is scared to give it another chance. She doesnt want to see other people, just doesnt want to get attach to me without thinking everything through. I know it doesnt make sense, Im confused as hell also. Right now I am a wreck. I told her this morning I cannot move out of the city but I am willing to rent a room somewhere for a month or so. I have so many things going through my head right now.
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M-11y
D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10
hey brhnheart this is shrinky my h came home and told me he didnt love me anymore 11/8/09 and left the same day I have been on a roller coaster with my emotions since. I have been reading Micheles book and Im hoping it will help me , I believe in my marriage and I will not give up. We have been a couple since we were 17 years old and this 1/2/10 will be 28 years of marriage I still love him just as much as I did then if not more, I am trying to hang on and so should you.
hey brhnheart this is shrinky my h came home and told me he didnt love me anymore 11/8/09 and left the same day I have been on a roller coaster with my emotions since. I have been reading Micheles book and Im hoping it will help me , I believe in my marriage and I will not give up. We have been a couple since we were 17 years old and this 1/2/10 will be 28 years of marriage I still love him just as much as I did then if not more, I am trying to hang on and so should you.
I hope for the best in your situation.
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M-11y
D talk-7/28/09 W Moved out-9/01/09 W wants D-9/22/09 W doesnt want D-12/1/09 W Moved in/I Moved out-12/21/09 W wants D-1/19/10 D Final-04/15/10
