you got that right ! married 28 years here and been a couple since we were 17 years old . I still love my husband with everything in me , I am so hurt and confused!How are you guys handling it I talk to alot of woman at work , but never really got a mans point of view. This is the hardest thing I have ever done, I still believe in my marriage ! I ask myself so many times if he is out there doing what he wants to do , no problems to worry about house what is suppose to urge them back home? Will my love be enough? What is it men need from a marriage , my husband not much talker.
Is it true that it's common for bipolar to dump their SO out of the blue and then try to get back together and so on until their SO is tired of it?
Brknhrt
It's easy to write off all the problems on your spouse's mental illness, but let's not jump to conclusions quickly. There was a good article on that precise subject, but I cannot find it. It was written by one of the top marriage counselors like Harvey or maybe Michele herself.
So far everything you've told us is a classic WAS script. Remember believe half of what you hear.
You've been in touch with your W for all this time and you've been talking R with her. You need to cool down. Enjoy your time away from W, don't initiate contact and steer clear of any R talk.
From your posts you come across as being desperate. You need to maintain your cool to do what is best for you.
I really need to go to bed now, so if I'm not being clear above I'm sorry.
