So after MC yesterday it became pretty clear (finally) that my H needs some IC first. He's in a very low spot. All three of us agreed to this as well. So we are stopping MC for now. I looked at a townhome last night. In a sense I feel as though I need to continue moving forward and not sit around and wait for him to come around anymore. If he does great, if not well my son and I are already on our way ....problem is we are separated now....and need the child support to be OK in the townhome. Not sure what to do............
Right now he is living at our house. My son and I are out my parents house. I am still taking care of all the bills. Our finances are still together. He isn't currently paying me child support. I would need child support to afford or be ok in the townhome. Not sure if I should say here your bills and the ones for the house.
Sucks, I have 48 hours to let the townhome know if I'll take it. It's wonderful and don't want to pass it up but would need some help.