Well finalized the divorce 1-11-10 but while we waited for the judge we talked seemed like all day even in the court parking lot .She said she thought i had changed alot and we could talk and possibly start to date she called me today and we talked somemore i asked since i had not seen her in 9 monthes would she come see me on my birthday she said yeah its very possible.But told me she is still going to date for now other people so maybe theres hope i told her i know it will take time to trust me again.AND THERES a FEW MORE GOOD THINGS THAT WAS SAID FROM BOTH OF US BUT ITS A START. BUT I SAID HEY IM FOR GOING REAL SLOW ANYHOW.