I need help please

[bestraongforyou]

yeah you are right - I will see if I can proof something and won't dwell on the reasons behind it.

[bestraongforyou]

Honestly one day I will hit my limit - I am trying to get copies of cell phone bills of WH and it's just not possible as I don't own the phone - so far I hit the wall for Hungary and Ireland.

WH has/ had the following phones

Ireland: Bill mobile phone
Germany: Pre-paid mobile
UK: Pre-paid mobile
Hungary: Pre-paid mobile

There has to be an option to get a call list of any of them - I am not even choosy

Any ideas?

[bestraongforyou]

I got the job starting Monday - 6 hours a day for the first few weeks - then full- time

[chatterbug]

Congrats

[bestraongforyou]

Thank you cutterbug

[newmama]

yay! 6 hours is more than part time! You will have more to take your mind of WH now!

[P17]

Congrats on the job. Great way to continue GALing!

I am trying to get copies of cell phone bills of WH and it's just not possible as I don't own the phone - so far I hit the wall for Hungary and Ireland.

Without potentially breaking the law I don't know.

[bestraongforyou]

The answer I got - "it's no problem if you own the phone."

Why in gods name would I need it for my own phone hey I could spy on myself - maybe I am cheating too - you never know

I will see what the bank statements will tell me - the fact that they were missing tells me there is something on it - I think I might get a good indication when I see how high his phone bills were those months.

Thanks P17 - looking forward to the job

[bestraongforyou]

Just wanted to check in - had a busy week - I am so looking forward to the weekend - it took me 2-3 days to get back into things at work but now I enjoy it very much - I had gotten used to being at home so quickly
WAS just called the kids - MIL got the all clear after the operation which is great news.

Funnily enough I had such a great week, the best one in a long time - did not think a lot about him and when he called the kids today and told them I cried for the first time in days - I guess because he didn't tell me personally and it took him a week to tell the kids - MIL had called him last weekend.

It still hurts...

I have made friends with a mother at school who now minds my youngest in the afternoona dn we got talking quiet a bit – I have told her a few things whicch happened over the course of my marriage and which explanantions I got for certain things of WAH – I got a few raised eyebrows to put it mildly.

WAS told me over and over again that I didn’t trust him – I am starting to think I trusted him too much

[bestraongforyou]

Hello all,


just wanted to say hello - it's almost 1 year since my last post - where I am at: we are still separated and are getting divorced.

The news: my husband is seeing someone new!

When he first split with me 1.5 years ago I found his seceret FB account shortly after - one of his friends was the co-worker he gotten close to at the time and I assumed he had an affair with at the time and then there was another co-worker on his friends list he described at the time as: she is always too close - she always touches my arm - he let me to believe at the time he didn't like it - yes and she is now the new girlfriend since beginning of this year.

She never even crossed my mind as a possibility- all those months - I just found it odd that co-worker #1 defriended my husband and her at the same time end of 2009 or maybe the 2 defriended her at the same time.

Anyway my kids met her this x-mas - he brought her to Ireland together with her daughter - she is a single mother like I was all these years ago when I first met my husband.

Anyway I have made zero progress in gathering evidence - everybody was told she only entered his life this year - everything is tutti and I am not the much wiser.

I have good and bad days - I still believe that me not having any details and no closure stops my healing or at least slows it down a lot.

Just wanted to share