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My husband moved out 10 days ago. I am going to a conference this week (Wed-Sun) and he is going to come back and stay in the house while I am gone. (He asked to do this) He also wants to stay in the house while my daughter and I go home for the Thanksgiving holiday.

I told him that it was fine.

Any thoughts??


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Originally Posted By: KLC
My husband moved out 10 days ago. I am going to a conference this week (Wed-Sun) and he is going to come back and stay in the house while I am gone. (He asked to do this) He also wants to stay in the house while my daughter and I go home for the Thanksgiving holiday.

I told him that it was fine.

Any thoughts??
Any suspicions?


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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
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No.

He is renting a room in a house and said it is starting to feel confining. I didn't know if it would be good for him to be in OUR house for a couple of days or if this would have a negative impact on what I'm trying to do.


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Originally Posted By: KLC
No.

He is renting a room in a house and said it is starting to feel confining. I didn't know if it would be good for him to be in OUR house for a couple of days or if this would have a negative impact on what I'm trying to do.
No suspicions. House-sitting. Couple of days. I see no problem. Is he a snooper?

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D-B proof the house. Also take pictures of all the rooms. That way when you come back you can compare to see if anything is missing.

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It might be a good thing for him to see what he is missing.


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