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I was the more dominant one in the marriage. I have no problem to do detach now. But I have to be 180, I need to be very friendly and supportive. I do not know what to do now.

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I am totally new here, so my advice is worth just about nothing. but take a look at my posts under how to do 180 when been too independent?

That's my problem--too independent, not pay enough attention to WAH. So how to 180 without doing the 'pursuing" thing?

Pearlharbr and Puppy were very helpful in giving responses right away.


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process

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