Curious to see Coach post the following in response to another stitch:
"Quote: he wants to move on and then we are in bed together
Way to control you and keep you off balance. Plus it's cake-eating."
Is it only cake eating if the guy is the WAS or does it work both ways?
In the past week I resumed a physical relationship with WAS. This afternoon we were texting back and forth and she commented as follows:
"You realize I'm using you....we should have done this years ago. I think divorce is going to be great fun. Answer to no one and still get sex. Life is good."
Why put an end to the physical stuff you are getting some for now and she is getting her d and playing the field? Maybe after she finds a boyfriend you can still get some one the side.
She said that she is using you do you? Is she really treating like a man? Are you acting like a man for her to be using you?
"Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well" Matthew 6:33
Why put an end to the physical stuff you are getting some for now and she is getting her d and playing the field? Maybe after she finds a boyfriend you can still get some one the side.
She said that she is using you do you? Is she really treating like a man? Are you acting like a man for her to be using you?
I confess to enjoying the physical stuff. It's been happening with far more frequency than pre-bomb. She claims she wants to continue this for the next 5 years...that I will be welcome to visit her in her new house. We haven't fought (in spite of involvement of lawyers) since it began.
In the past week I resumed a physical relationship with WAS. This afternoon we were texting back and forth and she commented as follows:
"You realize I'm using you....we should have done this years ago. I think divorce is going to be great fun. Answer to no one and still get sex. Life is good."
The real question is -- whether she's serious or just yanking your chain to get a reaction/see how much she can get away with -- do you wish to be intimate right now with someone who is manifesting this attitude right now?
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
Why settle for crumbs? Aren't you more successful, confident and strong than that?
Go back and read that text. What would you tell your sister if her husband said something thing like that?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
