Well, it's been 5 months now since the bomb. She hasn't filed, yet. Ever since doing DB, wife's attitude has gone from severe anger to more of the woman I married. But, I still have a long ways to go.
She wants me to call her every day. Is this going against DB? She also had a minor surgery and has to stay in bed for three days. I feel I've been going against my strategy by offering any help I can do for her. Is this the right thing to do and still detaching?
Divorce busting is about doing what works. If you need to adjust your strategy because something is working or it is not working then you need to do so.
I see. I guess that there's so many factors involved, emotinally, physically, kids, finances... and the fact that time also changes both parties perspectives.... what I thought was very difficult in the beginning is easier now that I have been taught patience. It just makes sense to analyze and adjust.
This has been one helleva site. It's been worth more than the price of a MC.
