I've been posting to the MLC forum while also trakcing this one. Seem to be stuck between the two and would aprpeciate any comments and suggestions from those on this forum who haven't seen my sitch up to this point over on MLC.
Most of my efforts have been making myself a better person (not necesarily a better husband). Someone that W would be interested in, want to have a relationship with. Someone that she respects and appreciates. Listening more, talking more, respecting her more.
I still have hope that she would be interested in me. Others have suggested pulling the plug on our M. I made a commitment to me, and to her with our vows. We're going through a rough time and I'm trying to work through it. I've given her 23 years - I can give her 23 months to try and decide what she wants and needs to be happy.
