Has anyone read the book/Internet Download “stop your divorce now” by Joseph Grant ?
If so, was it worth the 50 bucks in so much as did it help You with your R?
Thanks
NSD
Me 47 WAW 48 No Kids M-20y T-24y B#1 2-20-09 B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907
Has anyone read the book/Internet Download “stop your divorce now” by Joseph Grant ?If so, was it worth the 50 bucks in so much as did it help You with your R?
. I was going to buy this just before I found this site. Somehow, surfing around I was able to download it free from somewhere (I forget where).
There are some - some - good ideas in it, all similar to DBing (agree, agree, agree, PMA, go out, GAL, etc,). The rest is just repetitious, bad grammar, bad syntax, bad spelling, rambling drivel.
I recall thinking that it read like it was written by some doddering old fool.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Hey Gardener, Thanks for that, yes, I kinda suspected that was the case -- guess I am just looking for that "magic bullet" like all of us.
Was there anything specific that you remember that did (or could of) helped ?
Thanks
NSD
Me 47 WAW 48 No Kids M-20y T-24y B#1 2-20-09 B#2 4-23-09-WAW Moved Out B#3 3-8-10-WAW Filed for D My Sitch:http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1823907#Post1823907
neversaydie, Yeah, I remember a few which I don't agree with. Even if your spouse is NOT having an affair, begin dating immediately. Agree to everything - everything - your spouse says. And a few DBish suggestions but like I said, mostly rambling, repetitive crap. Threaten to sue wife's IC, if she has one and MC if you went to one , for contributing to the dissolution of the marriage.
I forget the logic, if any, behind this one. However, I did threaten this in our first Divorce Mediator meeting because I know her IC had been pushing her to divorce, get her own life for over two years and because I suspected at the time that my wife may have been seeing our MC (!) but I unearthed no evidence even with phone bills and a PI.
Interesting thing, though, when I announced my intent to sue, my wife went into sheer panic, begging me not to, offering to show me her diary entry of when and why she finally made the D decision (?). Couldn't make heads or tails of it but the sheer panic was telling. Of what I still don't know.
Sorry for over-answering your question and rambling on, but I'm real good at that.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
