My husband left 2 mths ago. He keeps telling me that ITS OVER that he is DONE and that he wants a DIVORCE and move forward with his life.
it has been a week already where i have not mention us, and just kept to myself and only talk about the baby and $.
and once i was doing good on avoiding problems he hands me some paper to start our divorce process so we can do it ourselves and not get any lawyers involved.
i was devasted i don’t understand what the rush is so i called him and told him i was not ready for this and my whole plan of not talking about us went down the drain...he told me he was in no rush to get a divorce but one wk later he tells me he just wants to end everything and do it in a peaceful way...(i have asked him if he is one someone else...n he says "NO")
all my hopes went down and i know im not ready to do this. i want to save our marriage but all he wants is OUT.
what should i do? Should i just continue to stay away from him and let him think im doing k and im k with the divorce? or should i just fill out the papers and start the divorce process.
i feel that this is hopeless and he is never going to come home.
and he makes sure to tell me that "IM NEVER COMING BACK" "YOU HAVE FALSE HOPE"
i miss him like crazy and i love him so much but how can i even have hope when the other person does not even want to try to work things out????
