Piecing but, MLC still going strong

[JAK58]

H and I have been piecing for quite a long time now but, He is still very much in his MLC. I have copied my last post here.

I need to start with a beginners mind again as in his MLC piecing rules don't really work i feel.

The last post in piecing:

Well H all week kept up the talk of OW and not wanting me to talk to her.
He confronted her again on thursday telling her he thought she might have misunderstood their convo. She told him she hadn't and then H told her he didn't want us talking at all and that it makes him feel awkward. She told him the same thing saying that if he didn't have feelings he shouldn't hav ,that it shouldn't make him feel that way.

He said to her that I told him I didn't want him to talk to her either but, that I wasn't going to tell him he couldn't as that was his decision.
She then told him that he should not want to be talking to her for the sake of his M. She then told him that under no uncertain circumstances did she want him talking to her at all not even to ask about our friend who had cancer. She said that if he needs to ask about friend then he could ask someone else. She did tell me what was said as she said she would.

He said nothing of the convo. Thursday but on Friday mentioned to me that he talked to her about what he thought was a misunderstanding. He said that she figured out that he didn't want me talking to her and that he did tell her again that I said that I didn't want him talking to her either but that I wouldn't tell him he couldn't. He said to me that he told her that he was had decided that he wasn't going to talk to her anymore. H also asked me to do the same.

Quite a different convo from what OW told me but I didn't say anything as the end result is that he isn't talking to her that maybe he will be able to work on himself.

I will respect his wishes with a twist that if he does talk to her OW will let me know.

On a good note H has been very good to me all weekend(we'll see if it's to keep me reeled in) He says he does want the M and if he wanted out he would have let me go the other night.
Told H I still feel very uncomfortable in this M. I did put my rings back on as i'll give it one last chance.

I do feel that every time things like this happen he does a little work anyway.


Well that is most of the drama that lasted all of last week and not once did I be the one to bring anything up, it was all H.

JAK

He is still way messed up and admits it so time to start over here i think.

JAK