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So you have an MLC spouse who has an op...

What would you do if you ran into op in public?

What would you do if you ran into spouse with op in public?

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Has this happened to you already?

Just wondering... wink

Thanks for your replys
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Honestly I would have to ask God for the strength to keep me from choking the living s&%t out of them.but that's just me. :-)


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Thanks Harpo for replying ~

I posted the question, because I always wonder what I would do. I live in a small town, and I think of it whenever I'm out. There was a long time I didn't go out on the weekend when he wasn't home.
My friend said she would laugh at op/them. As if to say " You have someone who is an MLCer. You don't know what your in for."

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(((MJ)))

I often wonder myself what I would do...Honestly I would like to walk up to them both and knock her FT self to the floor...One good punch, her flat on her fat a$$, a hard kick in the junk for him and then I walk away with my head held high...No words...Just a smile smile


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Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
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Hey Serenity ~

Thanks for replying to this post!

I loved your answer!
The best part for me was you walking away with your head held high!

I would love to get skank fired. She is such a skank sick
When I think of all the times I would stop by H office and meet him for lunch and I was nice to her, it infuriates me. She was already making plans. I know he is to be blamed too. BUT, she knew he was married. If she had any morals, she would have found herself a single guy. WOW! what a concept!
I picked out the Christmas presents for the girls in the office from my H ( the boss ). I picked out her Christmas present, and wrapped it! mad

Ok MJ... settle down here.
GOD is my vindicator.
What he is going to do, is better than anything I can think of doing.
We will be the bigger, better person for it too.
Have FAITH in HIS word.

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Hi, MJ. I am mostly a lurker in other people's posts, my sitch is so hard for me that I can barely think of anything else most of the time.

Reading the responses to this thread just cracked me up. As funny as all the "revenge" kind of things we'd all like to do, I think that in the end, most of us would hope that we showed grace and took the high road. It certainly isn't always the most fun, but you are absolutely right- God is your vindicator!

Thanks for the giggles when they are hard to come by.


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M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11

my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127




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I would say to him "Hi, hon" and give him a kiss on the lips. Leave HER to figure out what is going on. HAHAHA...


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