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#1833668 09/08/09 12:26 AM
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I just had a conversation of 1-1/2 hours with my H - him telling me that he has a gut feeling I am going to screw him in the divorce.
(not my personality to screw people especially one I am still deeply inlove with)
His call brought me to tears and I spent alot of the time appologizing for my mistakes in the marriage.
He has so much anger - if he truely wants a divorce then why all the anger - he keeps throwing my infidelity back in my face as to why its all ending this marriage - (he has had many and been forgiven)
Is this normal for him to be so angry? he thinks of me everyday and says that he still cares
then why is divorcing me???


ME 45
Husband 47
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D 23
S 26
IDLYA -MLC- 7-25-09
Wants Divorce 8-18-09
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What's the whole story here? Do you have another thread?


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Originally Posted By: Livingalone101

His call brought me to tears and I spent alot of the time appologizing for my mistakes in the marriage.


And thus his anger did EXACTLY what it was set out to do. You were 'baited' into a arguement that did nothing more than validate himself.


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S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
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ME 45
Husband 47
Married 29 yrs
D 28
D 23
S 26
IDLYA -MLC- 7-25-09
Wants Divorce 8-18-09
Moved to another state W/OW

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