I was thinking of you last week when I almost got stuck overnight at the Minneapolis airport. Luckily, all flights were delayed, so I made my connection.
I'm glad you see through your H and his "lines". Seems like there is an endless stream of women who will fall for them. We're all here for you when you want to talk!
So glad to hear from you. Hijack my thread anytime you need to! Saffie is right. Without all of you I would not have survived. Much love to you all! You all know who you are!
Sue, I do believe it is hard for you to make some hard choice in your life. He has shown over and over that he has no intention of changing.
Sue, this Sue should become your new anthem, I smile everytime I hear it on the radio. Dedicate it to your husband!
I Look So Good (Without You)" by Jessie James
Hey boy I would of thought that when you left me I'd be broken with my confidence gone.. so bummed.. Hey boy I would of thought that when you said that you don't want me I'd feel ugly n sense something was wrong Standing in front of the mirror.. my skin's never been clearer My smile's never been brighter
I look so good without you Got me a new hairdo Lookin' fresh n brand new Since you said "that we're through" Done.. with your lies Baby now my tears dried You can see my brown eyes Ever since you said goodbye I look so good, I look so good without you I look so good, I look so good without you
Hey I'd never would of thought that when you left me I'd feel sexy n so good in my skin again And I'd never would of known that I'd be dreamin' so much better without you in my head Standing in front of the mirror.. my clothes never fit better My life's never been brighter
I look so good without you Got me a new hairdo Lookin' fresh n brand new Since you said "that we're through" Done.. with your lies Baby now my tears dried You can see my brown eyes Ever since you said goodbye I look so good, I look so good without you I look so good, I look so good without you
Now baby my body's lookin' better than before Ain't bitin' my nails since you walked out of that door I realized now I deserve so much more than what you give Than what you give (than what you give..)
I look so good without you Got me a new hairdo Lookin' fresh n brand new Since you said "that we're through" I look so good without you Got me a new hairdo Lookin' fresh n brand new Since you said "that we're through" Done.. with your lies Baby now my tears dried You can see my brown eyes Ever since you said goodbye
I look so good without you Got me a new hairdo Lookin' fresh n brand new Since you said "that we're through" Done.. with your lies Baby now my tears dried You can see my brown eyes Ever since you said goodbye I look so good ,I look so good without you I look so good, I look so good without you
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Last night I received a text from new guy....we shall call Mr. C. While texting with Mr. C...got a call from Mr. A.... I don't have an exclusive relationship with either and not ready to yet...so why not have friends?
STBXH who? LOL
It is true when you finally drop the rope...thngs get better!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Lotus and Kat.....good one! Kat is correct X's given name does does begin with a B...although there are other not so nice names that begin with B that also fit him!
Saffie, I do feel better. Life is better than it has been in three years. I'm going to dinner tonight with two of my dear girlfriend. Tomorrow afternoon I am heading out of town for a girl's weekend with three of my other friends....girl's weekend...yay!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Lotus, you were in MN! I'm less than 10 minutes from the airport too.
Yoyo, I promise I'll start my own thread tomorrow!! I'm glad to hear that you're having fun. You certainly deserve it. You're a beautiful woman inside and out and people see that about you.
H and I had it out again today. He said that because I don't want to try that this is my fault and I'm to blame. I told him to feel free to place all the blame on me but I'm not changing my mind. I'm still done. I told him that I intend to file. It was a long, nasty conversation, but I was able to respond to everything he had to say and very confidently. I suspect that once I file he will head on back to IN to his family. It will be my fault (in his eyes) that he never sees D5 but we all know that's not true.
Well, I need to get going back to work.
Again, thanks so much for coming back and being my support again. I will start my own tomorrow.
See you then!!
-Sue
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Sue, I did want to throw my support in though it is a tad late...some of my own mess going around. I know it has taken you a while to get to a place where you feel this is what you need to do. I feel for you but you are taking control of the situation.
I remember how much I hated Ex holding all the cards while we were in limbo. At the time, I didn't think I had any control over any of it. I just wanted to save my family. Now, I think if I had kicked his rear out, filed at least for a legal seperation it would have made a difference. Instead I was going through the gambit...trying to make him "see" what he was doing. Well mistakes I have made.
I am glad that you are sounding strong and standing by your decision. Lots of hugs.
kat
Yoyo, sorry for the hijack. You are sounding great. Maybe I can meet you in Branson sometime. I think that is close to half way.
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
