I'm not sure if I should be posting here or stay in the mid life section but I am divorced but not done. I still love my wife and the peculiar situation makes it challenging to think that I should stop believing that there is a possibility of eventual restoration.
What I need help with right now is depression about two of our three children that have moved in with their mom. While this could be a good sign that she is trying to recapture what she walked away from I am in such distress because I have never been without my kids other than them going out with their friends, going away to camp or other lengthy fun things they are involved with. This separation, which has no return date in sight, is tearing me apart. Please click on this link to read more details and please let me know what you think and help me do the right things - [url= http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1824111&#Post1824111]Mmf thread[/url]
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EDIT - For some reason, I couldnt get the link to work above. Please copy the link and enter it into your browser. I really need your help.
Last edited by missmyfriend; 08/22/0902:50 PM.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
MMF. While I am not the best at giving advice, I am sorry to hear this. This forum gets very little traffic. I might suggest posting something on Newcomers askisng some of the others to come here to look at you sitch. I know in times like this sometimes it can be very helpful to seek out a family doctor for antidepressants. Not a cure all bit can be helpful. Maybe then seek some legal counsel on your options.
Shocked1 Thank you for your response. I have been on the midlife section for a long time and know that I am in a combination of the midlife and divorced but not done yet areas of my life. I have posted over on the midlife area and getting some good responses.
Thanks again.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God