A few yrs ago I posted here under the name calling4courage while my m was falling apart, h moved out to be with ow. And later as march4th when he wanted to come back and I was confused. I worked my butt off Dbing, gal, pma.... and it paid off when my stbexh split w ow and finally saw things from a more whole perspective. He was deeply sorry and regretted what he'd done, and wanted me to consider reconciliation. This is what I'd hoped and prayed for, but by the time he was on board - I was no longer interested. Just felt good to know he finally saw what he'd done to his family! Now, over 4 yrs later and ow just got her karma. I had to come back here to share. I do believe that what goes around comes around and that the universe will teach you the lessons you need to learn. Ow & my xh broke up and she became engaged & married very soon after. This had to be painful for xh and I felt he had it coming. WELL.... last wkend 2 of my girlfriends were out at a local bar when ow & her hubby came in. Her H proceeded to come on hot & heavy to my GF, telling her how unhappy he is in his M etc. He said he wants a family and it's never going to be with her, how does my gf feel about kids, etc. Ow was sitting across the room watching. She was devastated. She turned to my other gf and poured her heart out about how her H was a cheater and how hurt and depressed she is. She was crying. All I can say is wow - this is karma in action! I can't believe the coincidence of the circumstance that allowed me to know about it. I feel justice is served at long last. She thought it was a great idea to have an affair with a M man and lure him out of his family home, now she knows the pain of wearing the other shoe! I enjoyed this news immensely! Wanted to come back and share. While I was going thru the experience of the horrible rollercoaster, I would never have believed this day were possible. That xh wanted me back too late and he suffered. And that ow suffers the same pain she caused me. Have faith in what time will bring. We truly reap what we sow. All it takes is time.
It probably sounds awful of me, but yes, it is good to know that Karma makes her rounds! Strangely what I want most for a conclusion is just to know that I and our marriage meant something to him. He hasn't evaluated any of this, so doesn't have an answer and may never have one. Just have to deal with that.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
