My boys are with my Mom so it can't be that kind of emergency...
He probably wants me to relent and allow the oldest over and by getting on the phone he will throw me a bone or two and think all is ok (because I don't have a backbone where he is concerned.)
If I do call (which I haven't decided to do or not to do yet) and he does spew, I have a hang up button.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
I think that's giving him too much credit. Was he there when you had the legal trouble with your son? (oh yeah that will look good in court)
He wants to talk now because he's not getting his way. Amazing what setting boundaries can do. He knows what he needs to do to see the boys, it his choice. It's all about behavior.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I've been out of commission for the past couple of days, dealing with the worst flu I've had in ages. So I'm trying to catch up.
(((Serenity))) and I hope that you can get things worked out.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement