Thank you for posting this, ppenton. Its difficult to read, as I am about to get married for the second time (his second as well) and that puts us in the 90% chance of failure category. Sigh. But its still good to know, good to have eyes wide open, and good to try anyway, even if we are doomed.
As with any bride, I can't imagine ever being divorced from him and I will not proceed with caution. I will go forward with wild abandon and will expect success!
I can relate to the money thing in that article. I'm about 75% sure that if I had a solid job with benefits lined up for the fall, she wouldn't have left me.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053