This BB is what I needed !

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Iam so happy I found this Forum.
Back in 3/09 got the ILYBIDLYLAH.
Separated 3/09 Moved W ASAP now regretting decision.
Very painful. Read every selfhelp book I could get my hands on. Of course did everything wrong, pleading, crying, I can change. Drove W farther away. Im over the pain mentally and physicaly. But still didnt know what to do? Kept searching webs on R went to counseling. Still didnt have any clue. Then I read one of Micheles articles on divorce and found this site. I feel so sorry for the many folks that are here with the same sitch, I wish I could tell every one in pain that it does get better with time. Its not the end its the beginning of an awakening. The people on here are wonderful with their insights and experience and wisdom. One thing thats happened to me by being here is I finally got over that lacking feeling. Im a big boy was always able to physically or mentally work everything out always things went my way. The separation was different there is no arguing pleading reasoning with WAW. Thats where DB DR comes in the techniques are sound and logical. The folks on here are a well of info, very insightful very goal orientated and doable. I thank everybody on here and pray for all.