me and my wife have been s for 3 months. we are finally starting to talk. although she is still standing somewhat firm she is calling me more often. the problem i see is her best friend is also getting divorced so they want to get a place together.she said she is happy being alone. the difficult part is that i now live in tx and she and the kids are in va. she doesnt make much money and all her stuff is here we were moving here together for a better career. she is terrified of change.


any ideas how i can get her to come here . i know she loves me and would calm down if she would come and make some new friends. please help


me 27
w 26
d7
s5
t17
m7
moved to tx from va 02/25/09
sold home in va and moved 03/23/09
bomb 04/16/09
w&kids in va
me in tx working