Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I admire each of you. You are my inspiration and you have given me hope. Whether I come out of this with a stronger M or end up D, YOU gentlemen have shown me that there are men out there who are willing to fight and will not give up when the going gets tough. Thank You!
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
Happy Father's Day to a wonderful bunch of men who are working very hard on being the best men and examples of men they can be. You are awesome! I hope you all have peace in your hearts and minds as you deserve it.
Much love!
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
Happy Father's Day to a wonderful bunch of men who are working very hard on being the best men and examples of men they can be. You are awesome! I hope you all have peace in your hearts and minds as you deserve it.
Much love!
Thank you, goingtofixME. Good name; can I have it? Your words are kind.
Forgive the sweeping generalization, here, but imho:
There are many good men here. I read these men's posts, their struggles, pain, and successes every day and they inspire me.
And when I read posts from you amazing women and what you're going through I sometimes, think (or say out loud) things like, "Oh, this guys baiting her," or "this guy's selfish", etc. That's how I perceive it: Men. Guys.
We need more men and fewer guys in this world, dammit!
Okay, stepping off the soap box, now....
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Thank you aliveandkicking. Happy fathers day to you as well. It is b/c of my very close relationship with my S5 and D2.5 that I have any chance at saving my marriage.
Good night and God bless, LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009