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[Mr GK]

Just visited wife and kids
knew she had a guy friend who she had a PA with once.
thought they had started going seperate ways,
still don't know how much time they spend together, but did see him at school function and was shocked. He is friendly with my kids, and my wife and other family members.
They live in different city. I don't see what goes on when I am not there. I forgave her for her PA.
I am confused and disappointed that he still is around.

Don't know what to make of their relationship. Is he still around as friends or what?

I do not discuss him with her.
I tdont think he is good, because he should not even be there to get close to my w. and to top it off he had a PA with her one tiome.
we are getting a lega sep. soon. But we get along quite well..

Anyway, I just don't know what to make of him.

Mean time, I am getting a l;ife, and my wife explained to me how she is concerned that I am not working on myself as much as I should.
It did help me refocus and concentrate my efforts on me.
I have come along ways, but realize that their is more wotk to do.