Time for a new thread I guess. I think it's time I moved on down the road to surviving. However since the mlc board is my home town and it's packed full of wonderful people. I have decided to still vacation here from time to time.
My ex just called a few minutes ago to give me an update on my son.
He is fine, the doctor thinks his fever is from him getting his molars in.
She was awefully chatty, I told her I was sorry about her great aunts passing. She went on to tell me about her friends husband who is in the hospital and not doing well at all.
She said she has had a really rough couple of weeks again.
She told me she saw a bunch of my family at the annual parade we have here. I didn't ask her if she spoke with them or not. I didn't say too much about that.
She then asked about my grandpa, she said "I was thinking about him the other day." How is he?" I said he is doing good.
It was a really nice conversation.
What does it all mean?
ABSOLUTELY nothing. I'm so done giving questions like that any thought.
I can actually say too, that I am more comfortable just talking to her about the issues that need to be discussed as well.
The "small talk" we had was nice too. I feel differently about it now. I don't care what she says or does OR who she is seeing. Just as long as she is not crossing any boundaries of mine or doing anything that will negatively affect the kids, I'm cool with this and it feels pretty dang good.
I like the thought of a vacation home, even if it is a cyber one.
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The "small talk" we had was nice too. I feel differently about it now. I don't care what she says or does OR who she is seeing. Just as long as she is not crossing any boundaries of mine or doing anything that will negatively affect the kids, I'm cool with this and it feels pretty dang good.
I like the way you think. Mostly I like that it feels good.
I can actually say too, that I am more comfortable just talking to her about the issues that need to be discussed as well.
The "small talk" we had was nice too. I feel differently about it now. I don't care what she says or does OR who she is seeing. Just as long as she is not crossing any boundaries of mine or doing anything that will negatively affect the kids, I'm cool with this and it feels pretty dang good.
Your title reminds me of an old (aren't they all?) Beatles tune sung by Ringo Starr...
"Octopus's Garden" (by the Sea)
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
