fighting Irish..thanks for the well wishes for fathers day, my W bought me 4 shirts and had nice cards from the kids, her card was a nice note that mentioned that even though we were in a "rough wave", I was still a great dad, had a BBQ and went to the reservoir as a family...it is killing me not to hold hands. No signed love on the card..... But my wife is going to counciling and she is telling me about it, she mentioned that she is in a between phase right now and that she feels stuck, I think that being in between is better than wanting out, which is where she was. I am personally in anguish every day because I miss her. it is hard to focus at work, just waiting for her to "come to" she is making progress. I was running a lot and trying to stay fit, but have been depressed over the last several weeks, I am just looking for words of encouragement. Your boys, are about the same as mine. What did you do for fathers day?
ME 43 Her 37 Married 6/98 2 sons 8 and 3 Love em tons Seperated March 20th Her- not sure Me willing to make changes
I went on a date with my wife to the movies, and dinner, it was fun...but no contact. I am trying to be grateful for the moment, forget the past and not expect for the future..I hope this is right, she is great, I hope that I can love her again..
ME 43 Her 37 Married 6/98 2 sons 8 and 3 Love em tons Seperated March 20th Her- not sure Me willing to make changes