I hear you Puppy. I wish she would change her cell phone and will suggest it to her. The thing with OM is really a thorn in my side and the funny thing is it's a thorn in hers too. It is really starting to p!ss her off that he can't seem to get the hint. And now that he is throwing things back in her face...well, let's just say I know W and that is really not the way to win her back. So I'm not that worried about them getting together. But it's a constant reminder of the past for her and me and it's hurting both of us moving forward which is what concerns me.
Ok....I see your point there. Had IC today and he suggested I tell her to tell him to never contact her again or she would get the authorities involved for harassment and to do it with me present. I kinda like that approach.
The defining factor in this OM thing will be how she handles it after this next week. She is working at the International Pinot Noir Festival for the chef/owner of the restaurant he works at so he will be there as well. After that she doesn't have any reason to have any contact with him and so I will wait and see how that plays out. She asked me if i wanted her to bail on the event and I told her no...that it would be pretty rude to the head chef as it would put him a person down and it's a really big deal for her career and I understand that. But after this event...well, I wouldn't understand them having contact after that. Other than that things have been pretty good with W and I. We are still opening up more and more to each other and trying to piece things back together....slowly but surely. We are both still really cautious with this and are both trying to feel the situation out and go forward as best we can within our own timetables. It's a kinda weird feeling...almost like when you first start out dating someone. You're taking it slow and trying to make sure it's real and not get hurt or move to fast...yet this is with a woman I've been with for years and have D3 with. It's a really odd situation.
