I don't know how or where to start... we had R for 18 months and it was perfect in everyway. Well, about 6 weeks ago I was forced to move from our home to another state for a new job while traveling home on the weekends. This weekend I went home, it was super W and I had some great conversations about what this new step is to bring our family. We were mapping out goals and ideas. Then the bomb... on my drive back last night she called to question some financial transactions on my account (for those of you that don't know I have had issues with honesty in the past and money was a big deal). My transactions were not out of bounds, my not communicating them was. Today she told me that she is done, not moving with the kids here next week. Not wanting to be with me, the whole 9 yards. The bile that spewed from her was so hurtful... So what did I do??? Yep I cracked, I called and called and called... I think I have my wits back but I am devistated. I skipped out of work for the day, skipped school too. sitting in my room hoping.
This sucks!
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
Hound! Sorry to hear this, but it will work out. This was definitely a trigger for bad memories for your W. Keep posting, let us know what happens.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
Houndfan! I'm so surprised to see you back here. I was so happy when you announced your divorce "busted".
Well, I think your wife's reaction may have just been that...a reaction. I'm hoping at least. Give her time to cool off. You know, don't call constantly.
You can only guess at this point where this is headed. False r's go on all the time. She may not have been ready just yet.
Keep us posted.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
