My WAW and I separated 5 days ago. I have only sent her a text and a goodnight msg over Facebook IM. The text was very lite. She responded to both but has done nothing to initiate conversation. I talked to a phone counselor a few days ago and said I was ready to start LRT's but definitely not go dark. My WAW has not initiated any and I would hate to think that any attempt no matter how lite or neutral or just for fun could be construed as pursuing by my W. On the bright side almost all of my stuff is still at my W and SIL's place and there has been no pressure for me to get it or anything about not being on the lease. Of course I haven't brought it up because I believe any signing of papers, D talk, separation talk or suggestions are my W's monkey not mine. Anyway, is this a good time to just be dim (wait for her to initiate any convo) while I am GAL'ing and getting used to my separation? I also have not said much to her twin sister who lives with her (we all loved together before the separation because SIL's husband passed away a few months before)
