It's been a while since I've been here, alot has been going on since I last posted. (I was formerly ral819) My STBX has finally filed D. I'm still living at home until at least the next court date in the end of June. The STBX hates it but, C'est La Vie. She speaks to me now as her freedom is near. She was ignoring me for awhile. She is also being careful as to her living right now. She doesn't make any questionable moves now that her freedom is coming. Of course I watch closely, and speak up when I have a question. She is pursuing her future and I'm letting her fly. No more being a doormat now.
I'm sorry she has made this choice. Take care of yourself and your children and keep moving forward.
You have to separate the D process from everything else and look at it as business deal. Again I'm sorry, but she may have to see this through to get her issues resolved.
Hey Trapt. Definitely a business deal. She just wants a D as she doesn't feel the same. Let's just say I don't care what she feels. I won't tolerate infidelity and she knows it. I haven't been able to prove anything yet though either. Trust is gone. She's keeping it quiet/secret and I don't want to be where I'm not wanted. I'm starting to think nice thoughts for me, you know, like Harley Davidson. The summer is here baby.
