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[Puppy Dog Tails]

Red,

Do you have an alarm system on your house?

Puppy

[Red Hope]

No...

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Do you normally keep a light on for her?

At 1am, if she's not home yet, I would turn out all the lights, and lock the house up tight and go to bed.

[Red Hope]

Yea, I usually leave on a light and the enterance from the garage open... I'll lock every thing and turn out the lights.

[Red Hope]

PDT what is you story? I can't find your story on here>>>

[Red Hope]

Well, W came home a sensable time, today she was asking me about the houses she is looking at. Will just keep working at what I'm doing for now.

[dburt]

I would not respond to the houses she is asking about, I would not help facilitate an action that would potentially hurt my two sons in the long run, what about you?

Burt

[Red Hope]

We today W drop the big one on me! W told me there was OM. He is also married with kids. She is only in a ER with him right now, cause they understand each other, and have a lot incommen. Boy that is funny! I READLLY need help!!!!!!!!! How do I get this to STOP! W said it was only a matter of time she had already left our R in Nov 08. I need desperate help!!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Red,

If she's admitting to an EA, it is most like a PA -- sorry.

They usually will admit to one level LESS than what the truth is:

- "there's absolutely nothing on" = "inappropriate friendship"

- "inappropriate friendship or feelings" = "full-blown Emotional Affair" (EA)

- "we've never been physical" = "full-blown Physical Affair" (PA), or sometimes it had BECOME physical, but they've temporarily cooled it, either voluntarily or due to outside pressure

How did you respond? Does the other man's wife know? I would strongly suggest you expose to her.

Puppy

[Red Hope]

Yes she does know, she call my house right after W told me. I was told OMW was going to tell me.