Hmm.. Well I moved out of my W and SIL's place today. It feels so strange not to be around the familiarity of the place not to mention the bed that I have shared with my W for the last year and a half. Incidently, my W and I have been married 11 months and were together a year before that. How did everyone handle the 1st few days?
Did anyone initiate much contact during the first few days or just wait for their S, WAS, etc contact them? I did send one casual, light, kind of fun text today and got a reply. Is this a good time to go dim and try LRT or is just more detachment in order. Separation took place pretty quickly after the bomb. I was the one that initiated and moved out after subtle hints from WAW.
---- me-36 WAW-32 separated- 5/21/09 M - 11 mos. together - 1 yr 11 mos bomb- 5/7/09