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#1771749 05/22/09 03:07 AM
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Hmm.. Well I moved out of my W and SIL's place today. It feels so strange not to be around the familiarity of the place not to mention the bed that I have shared with my W for the last year and a half. Incidently, my W and I have been married 11 months and were together a year before that. How did everyone handle the 1st few days?

here are a links to my sitch:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1768447

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me-36
WAW-32
separated- 5/21/09
married - 11 mos
together - 1 yr 11 mos

drew7 #1772210 05/22/09 11:43 PM
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Did anyone initiate much contact during the first few days or just wait for their S, WAS, etc contact them? I did send one casual, light, kind of fun text today and got a reply. Is this a good time to go dim and try LRT or is just more detachment in order. Separation took place pretty quickly after the bomb. I was the one that initiated and moved out after subtle hints from WAW.

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me-36
WAW-32
separated- 5/21/09
M - 11 mos.
together - 1 yr 11 mos
bomb- 5/7/09


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