Here is my storie Male married 19 years.Five children 19,14,12,8 and 6.My wife asked for a divorce in Feb currently still living in house.involved in an auto accident in 06/07 in my 1965 Mustang that I waited 30 years for.it was my third ride on my way to my fathers wake.I have been out of work since the accident and currently waiting for back surgery which was denied by the ins. company so it is in litigation limbo.have also been diagnosed with clinical depression and have had a substance abuse problem.I have also had back problems for some 20 years.I am not an angel but I love my wife and children dearly.we have had therapy in the past.She said she is tired refuses to get help and wants out.so here I am any advice would be appreciated I am devestated without her.
H 49 W 42 S 19 S 14 S 12 S 8 D 6 M 19 Bomb dropped 2/09 Separated 5/09 still hopeful, praying
One thing I have learned through all of this is that I have to be OK without spouse. Fix me to be OK without her.
I took this opportunity for lots of personal growth. I still have lots to do.....
Read as much as you can right now. Start with DR. Do not show spouse. It is your tool. It is the best thing I found to help get my relationship back on track.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
